How to find a husband

Find­ing a hus­band is the art of seduc­tion and com­mu­ni­ca­tion, embod­ied in the role of a detec­tive. Yes, such a “cock­tail” of skills is sub­ject only to the most tal­ent­ed women who sin­cere­ly want to get mar­ried.

“I want to find a hus­band” — these words can be heard espe­cial­ly often today, because the inex­orable sta­tis­tics says: there are 1,200 women for every 1,000 men. And how to be in such con­di­tions of “tough com­pe­ti­tion”, espe­cial­ly when all you can hear around is how one friend got mar­ried, the sec­ond one already gave birth to a child, and the third man­aged to change her sec­ond sur­name and left for the Emi­rates to her new hus­band? In such sit­u­a­tions, it seems that this is real bad luck. But this is not entire­ly true, because a lot in this del­i­cate top­ic depends on the woman, and then we will look at what can be done so that luck turns around and the mar­riage ring now shines on your hand.

Where and how to find a good husband?

Before you start your search, decide on the cri­te­ria for what a “good hus­band” is. After you find the most impor­tant char­ac­ter­is­tics, con­sid­er where these “found”.

For exam­ple, if good means kind, then such a man should be sought among doc­tors and ani­mal lovers, espe­cial­ly cats. If you need a brave and respon­si­ble, then step by step to get a job in an orga­ni­za­tion where the mil­i­tary works: women sec­re­taries are always need­ed there.

You can meet a man-intel­lec­tu­al at train­ings, at uni­ver­si­ties and a chess club.

When you decide on the search place, start self-improve­ment, because it’s not enough to find a man, you need to cap­ti­vate him:

  • exter­nal data. No need to strive for per­fec­tion, but a pleas­ant appear­ance should always be;
  • charis­ma. To win over any per­son is not an easy task, so train at home on facial expres­sions, pos­ture and voice;
  • flirt­ing. This is a very impor­tant moment in the search for a hus­band: you need to be lib­er­at­ed and be able to “play” with a man so that he likes it.
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How to find a rich husband?

There are two clas­sic options for find­ing a rich gen­tle­man:

  1. For shoes and acces­sories (but this is a very unre­li­able option, because the guy could buy these shoes with the last mon­ey, and a good brief­case could be a birth­day present from col­leagues).
  2. The most con­ve­nient: look at work by salary. In this case, you do not have to play guess­ing games, more­over, here you can eval­u­ate his career (and, accord­ing­ly, finan­cial) poten­tial.

We are look­ing for the rich­est in:

  • bank;
  • IT com­pa­nies;
  • at the fac­to­ry (accord­ing to sta­tis­tics, indus­tri­al engi­neers have high salaries).

How to quickly find a husband on the Internet?

If you are com­plete­ly dis­ap­point­ed in our men or inspired by the suc­cess­ful expe­ri­ence of your girl­friends, and now set the goal of find­ing a hus­band abroad, then the Inter­net is at your ser­vice.

You need to take sev­er­al pho­tos with a pro­fes­sion­al, where you will be in sev­er­al images (but let them be quite restrained and friend­ly at the same time), and pub­lish them on the web­site of the mar­riage agency. On some sites, this is a paid ser­vice for the bride, on oth­ers — for the groom, and still oth­ers require equal pay­ment from both par­ties. It is impor­tant that it be a decent orga­ni­za­tion whose ser­vices your acquain­tances used.

How to find a husband for a woman with a child?

At first glance, it seems that it is dif­fi­cult for a woman with a child to find a nor­mal hus­band. And this is true if:

  • a woman does not have a nor­mal, well-paid job and lives off her par­ents and alimo­ny;
  • she has been on mater­ni­ty leave for a long time and has already for­got­ten what it is to com­mu­ni­cate with peo­ple;
  • she has exag­ger­at­ed demands on her part­ner’s mate­r­i­al and spir­i­tu­al base: “he must be smart, hon­est, love some­one else’s child, dri­ve a Land Cruis­er and have a dacha with a small pond and three swans.”
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In these cas­es, you will have to look for a hus­band for a very long time, and it is not nec­es­sary what you can find.

What should be done:

  • do not for­get about the child. Your per­son­al life should not spoil his child­hood.
  • improve qual­i­fi­ca­tions, get a nor­mal job and look for ways to improve their finan­cial sit­u­a­tion (most often at this stage, suit­able can­di­dates begin to appear in life);
  • remem­ber: no one wants to sup­port some­one else’s child, so before you try to build a rela­tion­ship, you must have suf­fi­cient funds to sup­port him. How to find a husband for a woman with a childSo you can talk about your self-suf­fi­cien­cy, and the child will not become an obsta­cle to a man agree­ing to become your hus­band. Oth­er­wise, he may think that you are look­ing for a “spon­sor”;
  • take care of your appear­ance and be able to present your­self beau­ti­ful­ly.

Clue: The main require­ment for a man for a woman with a child is his love for chil­dren, if you do not want con­flicts in the future fam­i­ly.

Well, after read­ing this arti­cle, the words “help me find a hus­band” or “I want to, but I can’t get mar­ried” are not about you, because now you know exact­ly how and where to look for him.