Finding a husband is the art of seduction and communication, embodied in the role of a detective. Yes, such a “cocktail” of skills is subject only to the most talented women who sincerely want to get married.
“I want to find a husband” — these words can be heard especially often today, because the inexorable statistics says: there are 1,200 women for every 1,000 men. And how to be in such conditions of “tough competition”, especially when all you can hear around is how one friend got married, the second one already gave birth to a child, and the third managed to change her second surname and left for the Emirates to her new husband? In such situations, it seems that this is real bad luck. But this is not entirely true, because a lot in this delicate topic depends on the woman, and then we will look at what can be done so that luck turns around and the marriage ring now shines on your hand.
Where and how to find a good husband?
Before you start your search, decide on the criteria for what a “good husband” is. After you find the most important characteristics, consider where these “found”.
For example, if good means kind, then such a man should be sought among doctors and animal lovers, especially cats. If you need a brave and responsible, then step by step to get a job in an organization where the military works: women secretaries are always needed there.
You can meet a man-intellectual at trainings, at universities and a chess club.
When you decide on the search place, start self-improvement, because it’s not enough to find a man, you need to captivate him:
- external data. No need to strive for perfection, but a pleasant appearance should always be;
- charisma. To win over any person is not an easy task, so train at home on facial expressions, posture and voice;
- flirting. This is a very important moment in the search for a husband: you need to be liberated and be able to “play” with a man so that he likes it.
How to find a rich husband?
There are two classic options for finding a rich gentleman:
- For shoes and accessories (but this is a very unreliable option, because the guy could buy these shoes with the last money, and a good briefcase could be a birthday present from colleagues).
- The most convenient: look at work by salary. In this case, you do not have to play guessing games, moreover, here you can evaluate his career (and, accordingly, financial) potential.
We are looking for the richest in:
- IT companies;
- at the factory (according to statistics, industrial engineers have high salaries).
How to quickly find a husband on the Internet?
If you are completely disappointed in our men or inspired by the successful experience of your girlfriends, and now set the goal of finding a husband abroad, then the Internet is at your service.
You need to take several photos with a professional, where you will be in several images (but let them be quite restrained and friendly at the same time), and publish them on the website of the marriage agency. On some sites, this is a paid service for the bride, on others — for the groom, and still others require equal payment from both parties. It is important that it be a decent organization whose services your acquaintances used.
How to find a husband for a woman with a child?
At first glance, it seems that it is difficult for a woman with a child to find a normal husband. And this is true if:
- a woman does not have a normal, well-paid job and lives off her parents and alimony;
- she has been on maternity leave for a long time and has already forgotten what it is to communicate with people;
- she has exaggerated demands on her partner’s material and spiritual base: “he must be smart, honest, love someone else’s child, drive a Land Cruiser and have a dacha with a small pond and three swans.”
In these cases, you will have to look for a husband for a very long time, and it is not necessary what you can find.
What should be done:
- do not forget about the child. Your personal life should not spoil his childhood.
- improve qualifications, get a normal job and look for ways to improve their financial situation (most often at this stage, suitable candidates begin to appear in life);
- remember: no one wants to support someone else’s child, so before you try to build a relationship, you must have sufficient funds to support him. So you can talk about your self-sufficiency, and the child will not become an obstacle to a man agreeing to become your husband. Otherwise, he may think that you are looking for a “sponsor”;
- take care of your appearance and be able to present yourself beautifully.
Clue: The main requirement for a man for a woman with a child is his love for children, if you do not want conflicts in the future family.
Well, after reading this article, the words “help me find a husband” or “I want to, but I can’t get married” are not about you, because now you know exactly how and where to look for him.