Sooner or later, every normal woman faces the question — how to get married successfully? Moreover, each young lady puts her own meaning into the concept of “successful marriage”: for some, this is a rich groom, for others — sincere and attentive, for others — hardworking and economic, for fourths — smart and talented, for someone — foreign. Of course, there is not and cannot be a single recipe for everyone, but there are some general principles that help to find a potential groom and bring him to the registry office.
“I want to get married successfully!”
Tips “how to get married successfully” fill the Internet and the pages of various magazines. Often it’s just a bunch of nonsense. And the reality is much harsher, because the higher the requirements for a potential partner, the more difficult it is to find him. There are no ideal men at all. There are only two categories of men whose marriage is not recommended categorically — pathological parasites and chronic alcoholics. All the rest are amateur. But if you have firmly decided for yourself: I want to get married successfully, if you have already determined what kind of man you need, then act decisively and purposefully, not sour from failures and not stopping halfway.
The first thing to do is to determine the place where bachelors fit your requirements. Remember Lyudmila from the movie “Moscow Does Not Believe in Tears”, who was looking for a game in the library. Although the character is somewhat anecdotal, she chose the correct method of finding a groom. It is unlikely that a rich businessman will show up in a cheap canteen, and an intelligent shy guy in an elite nightclub. Although now it’s probably more correct to go not to the library, but to a car dealership, where you can ask a young man who buys a Bugatti: “Can you tell me how a carburetor differs from an injector?” … Also, in order to bring the day of your successful marriage closer, also do not It is worth neglecting the good old way of dating with the help of friends and relatives.
Nowadays, the question of “how to get married successfully” is increasingly being solved with the help of the Internet. Dating sites divorced immeasurably. Lots of offers from overseas. But, using Internet resources, it will not be superfluous to know: the photo does not always correspond to the actual appearance of the gentleman, the oil oligarch may actually turn out to be an unemployed alcoholic, and the romantic Canadian film actor may be a domestic paranoid. And for marriage swindlers, the Internet is a gold mine! Therefore, do not rush to accept tempting offers and look forward to a successful marriage until you meet in person and are 100% sure that he is who he claims to be. And if the “millionaire” asks you for a $300 loan to buy a hotel in Miami, drive him three necks.
When meeting, evaluate not so much the current state of the gentleman as his potential. You can either successfully marry a poor student who will become a bank director in a few years, or unsuccessfully marry a slacker who squanders his father’s inheritance. Generals usually become those who marry a lieutenant.
How to attract the attention of a gentleman? No matter how much they say that the main thing in a person is the soul, men are arranged in such a way that they first of all look at appearance. A well-groomed, neat and stylishly dressed woman is preferable to a slut, tastelessly dressed up, even in expensive clothes.
Often women consult with astrologers who recommend a good year and even a day for marriage. However, astrology is a very dubious way to solve the question “how to get married successfully.” Much more effective — your charm, sociability and ability to communicate. This is a guarantee that you will be able to both successfully marry and save your marriage.