Why Can’t I Get Married?

There are many answers to the ques­tion why I can­not get mar­ried. We will ana­lyze some of the most rel­e­vant today. At the same time, we will not con­sid­er the appear­ance of the appli­cant, since even very attrac­tive and suc­cess­ful busi­ness women remain unmar­ried until old age.

Why won’t they marry me?

The main rea­son why a woman or girl can­not get mar­ried is her sub­con­scious. But the vari­a­tions of the sub­con­scious mood can be quite real­is­ti­cal­ly divid­ed into sev­er­al sub­cat­e­gories:

1. The unsuc­cess­ful expe­ri­ence of fam­i­ly life of par­ents, neigh­bors, friends, in gen­er­al, the inner cir­cle auto­mat­i­cal­ly blocks the wom­an’s sub­con­scious per­cep­tion of the pos­si­bil­i­ty of a hap­py mar­riage. This fear scares men on an emo­tion­al lev­el.
2. Exag­ger­at­ed require­ments for the appli­cant for the role of the future hus­band is anoth­er rea­son why it is impos­si­ble to get mar­ried. In order to solve this prob­lem, a woman must either raise her­self to the lev­el of her demands in moral, social and even sex­u­al terms, or low­er the bar of require­ments to a low­er lev­el.
3. Uncer­tain­ty in their own strengths, their appear­ance, skills and abil­i­ties scare off poten­tial suit­ors. Dear women, under­stand that until you learn to love your­self, no one will love you. And do not be sur­prised and ask your­self every day why I can­not get mar­ried, if every morn­ing in the mir­ror you are look­ing for more and more short­com­ings in your­self.
4. It is not pos­si­ble to mar­ry even those women who have expe­ri­enced an emo­tion­al shock from a pre­vi­ous rela­tion­ship or moral and sex­u­al abuse by men in a cer­tain peri­od of their lives. Such a woman from each new man expects only anoth­er mean­ness and she her­self leads the new­ly emerg­ing rela­tion­ship in the oppo­site direc­tion from seri­ous­ness.
5. Some men are fright­ened by the exces­sive insis­tence of a woman on mar­riage. Or vice ver­sa, female mod­esty and con­stant­ly hid­den feel­ings lead a man into a stu­por. Not know­ing your desires, he sim­ply does not know what to do and the girl can­not get mar­ried.

In any of these cas­es and oth­ers like them, there can be only one way out — first change your­self and your world­view, stop avoid­ing the seri­ous rela­tion­ships you so desire, and you will be sur­prised how much the sit­u­a­tion will change.