duties of a wife

Even hard­ened fem­i­nists will soon­er or lat­er want to start a fam­i­ly, get mar­ried, and there­fore the answers to the ques­tions of what a good wife should be and what a real woman should be able to do are of inter­est to every­one.

What are the responsibilities of a wife in the family?

A good wife, what should she be? Prob­a­bly doing house­work — cook­ing, clean­ing, wash­ing. And if you still please your hus­band in bed, then it will become an ide­al at all. But are these all the qual­i­ties that an ide­al wife should have? For sex, a man may well get by with 1–2 mis­tress­es, and entrust clean­ing and cook­ing to a house­keep­er. It turns out that men in mar­riage are look­ing for not only deli­cious borscht and sta­ble sex. Some­one wants to find an island of com­fort and peace in mar­riage (as it was in his par­ents’ house), and some­one needs a wife to improve their social sta­tus — a sub­con­scious­ly unmar­ried man is per­ceived as an imma­ture youth and a friv­o­lous per­son, and this can great­ly hin­der busi­ness. So to say how a wife should behave should be based on the needs of a par­tic­u­lar man. But there are some things that most men would like to see in their wives? Of course, there are, and we’ll deal with them.

How should a wife behave?

  1. The duties of the wife include the afore­men­tioned cook­ing, laun­dry, clean­ing. But you must admit that these duties can be per­formed in dif­fer­ent ways: you can treat this as a hate­ful and bor­ing job, or you can sin­cere­ly wish to please your loved one. What do you think a man would like more?
  2. Our men are inde­pen­dent, strong, able to cope with any trou­ble. But they still need sup­port, and they want to receive it not from a psy­chother­a­pist, but from their beloved woman. When every­thing goes well, it is not dif­fi­cult to do this, but if the hus­band is haunt­ed by trou­bles, then harsh words seem to be asked on the tongue, and one wants to pounce on the hus­band with reproach­es. But you can’t do this, because you will only final­ly low­er your husband’s self-esteem, and such a per­son is unlike­ly to become suc­cess­ful.
  3. The abil­i­ty to com­mu­ni­cate is impor­tant not only in nego­ti­a­tions with busi­ness part­ners, in fam­i­ly life this qual­i­ty is also very valu­able. Learn to lis­ten to your man with­out inter­rupt­ing. Respect his opin­ion and do not try to remake it in your own way — a man for the sake of his beloved will be able to com­pro­mise, but pride will not allow him to con­stant­ly obey him. Allow your hus­band to be him­self, this works much bet­ter than telling him that he is doing every­thing wrong and that he needs to take an exam­ple from his girl­friend’s hus­band.
  4. Wom­en’s mag­a­zines do not get tired of repeat­ing — diver­si­ty in bed is a guar­an­tee that a man will return only to you. At the stage of brides, we more or less remem­ber this rule, but when we put on the cov­et­ed ring on our fin­ger, for some rea­son we for­get about this rule. Sex from plea­sure becomes a mar­i­tal duty, and some irre­spon­si­ble ladies also manip­u­late their hus­bands, deny­ing them “access to the body.” This is a cat­e­gor­i­cal­ly wrong approach, because it is not clear who is pun­ish­ing whom in this sit­u­a­tion, and a man, tired of being refused at home, will go look­ing for sex else­where, and he will be right.
  5. Do not for­get to praise your hus­band, show that you real­ly need him. Every­one has flaws, you should not make an ele­phant out of a fly. A man wants to hear at home not about his mis­takes (the boss will remind him about them more than once), but about suc­cess­es. Men need com­pli­ments, maybe even more than women. So do not skimp on the praise of your hus­band, he deserves it.
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  7. Do not for­get about free­dom — you need time to meet with friends, walk around beau­ty salons and shops. Your hus­band also needs time to spend not with you, he also has his own inter­ests. Under­stand and accept this fact.
  8. One can talk end­less­ly about the duties of a wife, but the main thing in a rela­tion­ship is not the stu­pid ful­fill­ment of duty to her hus­band, but the desire to do some­thing for him. What kind of hap­pi­ness and mutu­al under­stand­ing can we talk about if it is impor­tant for you to ful­fill your duty, but there is no desire to make the per­son next to you hap­pi­er? It turns out that the answer to the ques­tion of what a wife should be is sim­ple — she should be lov­ing.
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