family happiness

Many of us dream of qui­et fam­i­ly hap­pi­ness — a friend­ly fam­i­ly, a cozy home, meet­ings with rel­a­tives and friends on week­ends. It is clear that it is nec­es­sary to work on cre­at­ing a nest, it is not for noth­ing that old­er rel­a­tives say in part­ing words “the hap­pi­ness of the fam­i­ly is in your hands.” True, this is where the part­ing word ends, and what exact­ly is need­ed for fam­i­ly hap­pi­ness, each of us has to com­pre­hend on our own.

What is family happiness?

Prob­a­bly, every woman wants to find a recipe for fam­i­ly hap­pi­ness, try­ing to derive her own for­mu­la. But there are no secrets here, all the cal­cu­la­tions have already been car­ried out, and the the­o­rems have long been proven. The three pil­lars on which fam­i­ly hap­pi­ness is built are love, respect and trust.

  1. Where does mar­i­tal hap­pi­ness begin? Each will find its own mile­stone, many con­sid­er the birth of a child to be a great hap­pi­ness in a small fam­i­ly, for some­one the hap­pi­est event will be mov­ing to a new apart­ment, and some will cel­e­brate the very fact of mar­riage. But none of this will be pos­si­ble with­out love — who wants to go to bed every night with a per­son who does not evoke any emo­tions?
  2. And what does it mean to con­nect your fate with anoth­er per­son, if not com­plete trust in him? After all, when we get mar­ried, we trust a per­son with our life and the life of future chil­dren. And there­fore, a woman should trust her future spouse, both roman­ti­cal­ly and domes­ti­cal­ly. The con­fi­dence that the hus­band will be able to pro­vide for the fam­i­ly is very impor­tant, and there is no emp­ty com­mer­cial­ism in this.
  3. Some irre­spon­si­ble per­sons say that it is worth appear­ing in a rela­tion­ship of respect, and love imme­di­ate­ly ends. But mar­ried cou­ples who have lived side by side for a long time believe that it’s not worth talk­ing about love with­out respect. If you do not care about the opin­ions, feel­ings, thoughts of each oth­er, you do not respect your spouse as a per­son, is this love?
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Secrets of family happiness

We fig­ured out the main com­po­nents of the recipe for fam­i­ly hap­pi­ness, but what oth­er rules are there?

  1. Accept a per­son as he is, with­out try­ing to remake and re-edu­cate. Yes, it’s dif­fi­cult, but if your husband’s habits irri­tate you and you don’t find any­thing bet­ter than to “nag” him with your dis­con­tent, then there will be no har­mo­ny and com­fort in the fam­i­ly.
  2. The key to fam­i­ly hap­pi­ness can be called the desire of the spous­es to do every­thing togeth­er. After all, a fam­i­ly is a com­mu­ni­ty of peo­ple, there­fore deci­sions should be made joint­ly, and both spous­es are also respon­si­ble for what hap­pens to the fam­i­ly. And, besides, the com­mu­ni­ty of inter­ests is sim­ply nec­es­sary for long-term coex­is­tence. If there are no such inter­ests, then after a riot of hor­mones and emo­tions, the cou­ple sim­ply will not under­stand what con­nects them. Good sex is great, but not enough.
  3. By the way, about sex. It is no secret that over time, pas­sions sub­side, and the inti­mate life of a cou­ple becomes not as intense as before. But every­thing is in our hands, almost all women have a good imag­i­na­tion, so what pre­vents it from being used for a good cause? Role-play­ing games, a roman­tic din­ner, sexy lin­gerie — but you nev­er know what you can think of to please your beloved man.
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  5. Often, spous­es begin to find out who works more, who does more for the hap­pi­ness of the fam­i­ly. But this approach is com­plete­ly wrong, you both work hard to enjoy the fruits of your labor in a cozy nest. In a hap­py fam­i­ly, spous­es will not com­pete and boast of their suc­cess­es, but will try to rejoice at the achieve­ments of the oth­er and sup­port in case of fail­ure.
  6. It is impos­si­ble to live with­out quar­rels, but it is impor­tant to be able to admit your mis­takes, to make com­pro­mis­es. You can’t be offend­ed for a long time, resent­ment tends to accu­mu­late, and now, after a cou­ple of days, the wife’s favorite cup, bro­ken by the awk­ward move­ment of her hus­band, no longer seems like a tri­fle. So do not delay rec­on­cil­i­a­tion, and remem­ber — both are always to blame for a quar­rel.
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