How to improve your relationship with your mom

It has long been known that peo­ple of dif­fer­ent gen­er­a­tions under­stand each oth­er dif­fer­ent­ly, often there are dif­fi­cul­ties in mutu­al under­stand­ing. After all, they have dif­fer­ent val­ues, views on life, etc. Not all chil­dren can boast that their rela­tion­ship with their moth­er is at its best. But in fact, par­ents are able to under­stand their chil­dren, they just need to cor­rect­ly explain the rea­sons for their dis­con­tent.

Let’s try to fig­ure out how to improve rela­tions with mom and how in the future to cor­rect­ly explain to her every­thing that is sore.

Bad relationship with mom — reasons

Con­sid­er the pos­si­ble rea­sons for the omis­sions that arise between par­ents and their chil­dren.

  1. A moth­er is try­ing through the life of her daugh­ter to real­ize her unful­filled hopes and dreams. Such a motive can be expressed both in a soft push to some ideas or in a strict voic­ing of one’s own opin­ion.
  2. Also, a dif­fi­cult rela­tion­ship with the moth­er can be caused by the child’s desire to receive approval from the moth­er. You are ready to do what­ev­er is required for the sake of mater­nal praise. You nev­er get enough of it. The rea­son for this lies in your child­hood. Most like­ly, from the very child­hood you were taught that you need to achieve a lot, while fail­ures were per­ceived neg­a­tive­ly by your par­ents.
  3. Big dif­fer­ence in the age of two gen­er­a­tions.
  4. You hear every day con­stant crit­i­cism from your moth­er. End­less nit-pick­ing fur­ther com­pli­cates the rela­tion­ship between moth­er and daugh­ter.

Relationship problems with mom

Of course, the ini­tial caus­es of mis­un­der­stand­ings can be very dif­fer­ent, their begin­ning can be hid­den even in child­hood. It accu­mu­lates over the years. There is no point in keep­ing it to your­self. Here are exam­ples of rec­om­men­da­tions on how to improve the rela­tion­ship between moth­er and daugh­ter.

  1. Try to find the rea­son that dri­ves the deci­sions, the actions of your moth­er towards you. It is pos­si­ble that the incen­tives for such behav­ior are her good inten­tions. When you real­ize that your par­ents wish you only hap­pi­ness, then you should be sym­pa­thet­ic to her actions.
  2. Under­stand that you are dif­fer­ent gen­er­a­tions, dif­fer­ent per­son­al­i­ties. Your moth­er, just like you, has her own opin­ion about your life. But that means you should­n’t live the life your moth­er is try­ing to cre­ate for you. Lis­ten to her advice, but also have your own indi­vid­ual opin­ion on this mat­ter.
  3. Find out more infor­ma­tion about the life of par­ents. Many of the life facts of a moth­er are able to give you an answer to why she reproach­es you all the time, etc.
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  5. Real­ize the respon­si­bil­i­ty that lay with your moth­er. Put your­self in her place. Feel all the hard­ships she has ever expe­ri­enced. Remem­ber how much time she devot­ed to you. By under­stand­ing this, you will be able to eas­i­ly deal with any trou­bles that arise in com­mu­ni­ca­tion with your moth­er.
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So, the rela­tion­ship between daugh­ter and moth­er is not always ide­al, but this is not a rea­son to give up. You need to strive to find com­mon ground with your par­ents. After all, life is short and it is nec­es­sary to appre­ci­ate every moment lived with them.