Do it the old fashioned way or do it your own way? Such a dilemma overtakes many couples in the first couple of wedding planning. Of course, you can trust the experience of your mother, aunt and grandmother, invite all distant and very distant relatives and spend two wedding days with the entire bouquet of Soviet heritage. Can you trust Chanfashion and turn your wedding day into a special, beautiful and free from dubious rituals and conventions holiday! Let’s figure out which way is closer to you!
traditional wedding in our country was made by young people not so much for themselves as “for people”. Therefore, instead of a cozy and atmospheric celebration, since childhood, we have watched a noisy feast with a lot of stupid competitions. We like the standards of a modern wedding much more, namely, the absolute absence of standards and rules! Let’s remember the main wedding conventions:
1 painting in registry office to the accompaniment of the march Mendelssohn. And we offer to organize an outdoor ceremony in a beautiful place, where instead of the standard text, the host will pronounce specially chosen words for you.
2 Bride buying is a must! And you can arrange a beautiful joint breakfast of the newlyweds in a hotel room or in “first meeting” in a cozy park.
3 Banquet? Only in the restaurant. And we offer in nature, putting up tents (to insulate them in winter), to hire a service — catering And here same conduct and ceremony. A little more expensive, but what an effect!
4 The toastmaster will lead the wedding! In our opinion, such vulgar, often stupid and stupid contests and dressing up in style cancanswans, highlanders-kunaksgypsies, little hearts myself ironed out. And modern presenters are real pros, they speak competently, put the emphasis correctly, take into account the theme of the wedding, the contingent of guests and current trends.
And most Ukrainian couples are already refusing from such outdated forms, replacing them with modern, exciting and unforgettable!
And now on this day you can: do not beat the glasses, the bride and shoes do not steal, do not cut loaf, do not throw the bride’s pendant, do not fly pigeons, get married on any day of the week, make a wedding bouquet with your own hands or refuse it altogether, do not wear ribbons to your girlfriends.
The most important thing is to enjoy your wedding!
Say no to wedding templates
Chanfashion debunks some stereotypes, invites you to believe in yourself and move away from patterns.
Pattern 1: invite everyone so no one gets offended
Inviting absolutely everyone is almost impossible, you can forget about someone. A wedding is your holiday, allow yourself to spend it surrounded by loved ones, loved ones and significant people for you. The trend to reduce the number of invited guests to a wedding in Ukraine is becoming more popular every year. Now, on average, there are 20–25 guests at a wedding.
Benefits: this way you can spend more time with each guest, chat with him and thank him personally. And you can use the saved budget for additional decoration and compliments for guests.
Pattern 2 — Worry about gifts for newlyweds
For many guests, choosing the right gift is a headache. Of course, you can always donate money and everyone wins. But now WISH-LIST has come into fashion — a kind of wish list so that your guests and friends know what to give you for your wedding.
Template 3 — wedding dance only to slow music
Of course, the ageless waltz is a wonderful dance. And try to surprise and charm everyone with such a dance composition so that everyone will be delighted?!
Template 4 — only black suit for the groom
Of course, this classic is always worthy of attention and respect. But modern wedding fashion offers a huge color palette: from navy blue to white. Choose! Experiment!
Pattern 5 — Have a prim, serious look during the ceremony
What for? After all, you can smile, laugh and rejoice! Show your feelings, excitement, experiences and sensations to the fullest.
Template 6 — a walk of the newlyweds along the “historical” places of the city
And you can make everything cooler and more interesting! Now it is fashionable to hold photo shoots before or after the wedding. In this case, a lot of prospects and opportunities open up. Just imagine how many locations can be used for filming!
Template 7 — the car must be of the Limousine brand, because it’s cool and expensive!
To account expensive, we don’t argue, limousine rental is really expensive … Yes, in addition - very inconvenient, especially in small towns, the streets of which are simply not adapted for this.
Increasingly, newlyweds use retro car. Stylish and affordable! And if at all creatively — bikes! Why not?!
Template 8 — carry all the invitees around the city
So far, quite often on the streets of the city you can see a string of honking cars of different brands and minibuses — a wedding cortege. As for us — the gypsy camp is resting! And everything can be done more elegantly: one car — with the newlyweds and a few friends.
Template 9 — groomsmen only in formal suits
But it will be much more stylish if they wear white or colored shirts (to match your wedding), a bow tie or tie and vests. Agree — great!
Template 10 — Do a themed wedding
It is not necessary to try on the image of some movie characters. It is quite enough to withstand a wedding in the same style and color scheme. And it will be really very beautiful! We have prepared a list of articles on luxury, trendy and just perfect wedding flowers. Read:
wedding color — Ivory
wedding color — Sirenite and Rose Quartz
Wedding color — warm Ocher
Wedding color — luxurious Burgundy
Wedding color — rich Fuchsia
Wedding color — exquisite Emerald
Wedding color — fabulous Silver
Wedding Color — Cosmic Ultraviolet
And finally, a few words… A wedding is a holiday, incredibly beautiful and only yours! This is a reflection of the individuality of your couple, and not following outdated rules.
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