psychological compatibility

The con­cept of psy­cho­log­i­cal com­pat­i­bil­i­ty has gained the right to exist thanks to inter­per­son­al rela­tion­ships. Psy­cho­log­i­cal com­pat­i­bil­i­ty is a char­ac­ter­is­tic of a long-term inter­ac­tion between two or more indi­vid­u­als, in which the man­i­fes­ta­tions of sta­ble char­ac­ter traits char­ac­ter­is­tic of these indi­vid­u­als do not lead to long-term and insol­u­ble con­tra­dic­tions. A sim­i­lar def­i­n­i­tion, which is giv­en in Wikipedia, per­fect­ly reflects the essence of the phe­nom­e­non we are con­sid­er­ing.

Compatibility in society

In any rela­tion­ship, be it rela­tion­ships with fam­i­ly, boss­es, friends, mutu­al under­stand­ing plays an impor­tant role. The psy­cho­log­i­cal com­pat­i­bil­i­ty of peo­ple means close­ness, sim­i­lar­i­ty. This is when the char­ac­ters and views are not hos­tile, but com­ple­ment each oth­er. In the com­pa­ny of oth­er peo­ple, we now and then expe­ri­ence the result of psy­cho­log­i­cal com­pat­i­bil­i­ty. The atmos­phere with­in the group and the results of any joint activ­i­ty large­ly depend on the degree of psy­cho­log­i­cal com­pat­i­bil­i­ty. Any team, group exists with­in the frame­work of socio-psy­cho­log­i­cal com­pat­i­bil­i­ty. It includes a com­mon­al­i­ty of goals and val­ue ori­en­ta­tions, atti­tudes towards activ­i­ties and com­rades, moti­va­tion for actions, as well as the char­ac­ter­is­tics of the psy­cho­log­i­cal make­up of each mem­ber of the group.

Anoth­er type of psy­cho­log­i­cal com­pat­i­bil­i­ty is psy­chophys­i­o­log­i­cal com­pat­i­bil­i­ty. This is com­pat­i­bil­i­ty in terms of the lev­el of phys­i­cal and psy­chomo­tor (devel­op­ment of intel­lec­tu­al and motor skills) devel­op­ment. Here we are talk­ing about the same man­i­fes­ta­tion of the basic men­tal process­es and a sin­gle degree of train­ing of peo­ple in cer­tain pro­fes­sion­al skills and abil­i­ties.

The psy­cho­log­i­cal com­pat­i­bil­i­ty of tem­pera­ments has a strange fea­ture, which is as fol­lows: the more peo­ple have sim­i­lar­i­ties in tem­pera­ment, the greater the chance of both com­pat­i­bil­i­ty and incom­pat­i­bil­i­ty of these indi­vid­u­als. In oth­er words, the more sim­i­lar peo­ple are, the eas­i­er it is for them to find a com­mon lan­guage. How­ev­er, they have a high­er chance of mutu­al hos­til­i­ty. This is such a strange thing, com­pat­i­bil­i­ty …

See also
How to support yourself during the war? Psychological advice

Family Compatibility

Of course, the psy­cho­log­i­cal com­pat­i­bil­i­ty of fam­i­ly mem­bers is much more impor­tant than com­pat­i­bil­i­ty with peo­ple unfa­mil­iar and less close to us. Fam­i­ly is the most pre­cious thing in the life of every per­son. If we do not choose par­ents, and the issue of com­pat­i­bil­i­ty is not par­tic­u­lar­ly rel­e­vant here, then we need to talk about the psy­cho­log­i­cal com­pat­i­bil­i­ty of spous­es, more­over, knowl­edge of this issue is sim­ply nec­es­sary.

The main pur­pose of mar­riage is to cre­ate a hap­py union. We are born for hap­pi­ness, it is in our hands. Under­stand­ing by spous­es of each oth­er and their rela­tion­ship to each oth­er is a key fac­tor in the sta­bil­i­ty of mar­i­tal rela­tions. There­fore, it is easy to guess that psy­cho­log­i­cal incom­pat­i­bil­i­ty stems from the unwill­ing­ness to under­stand the spouse and objec­tive­ly eval­u­ate their own behav­ior. In a mar­i­tal rela­tion­ship, it is impor­tant to under­stand the com­plex­i­ty of psy­cho­log­i­cal com­pat­i­bil­i­ty. Emo­tion­al, moral, spir­i­tu­al, sex­u­al com­pat­i­bil­i­ty — these are the lev­els of psy­cho­log­i­cal com­pat­i­bil­i­ty on which the fate of mar­riage depends. The more com­plete this com­pat­i­bil­i­ty, the bet­ter the spous­es with each oth­er. The more close sides and com­mon inter­ests a hus­band and wife have, the more com­plete their psy­cho­log­i­cal com­pat­i­bil­i­ty.

Har­mo­ny in fam­i­ly rela­tion­ships is deter­mined by sev­er­al main fac­tors of psy­cho­log­i­cal com­pat­i­bil­i­ty:

  • the emo­tion­al side of mar­i­tal rela­tions, the degree of attach­ment to each oth­er;
  • gen­er­al cul­tur­alpsychological compatibility of spouses the lev­el of spous­es, the degree of their men­tal and social matu­ri­ty;
  • sex­u­al com­pat­i­bil­i­ty of part­ners.

Suc­cess or fail­ure in mar­riage pre­de­ter­mines the per­son­al qual­i­ties of the spous­es, for the devel­op­ment and con­trol over which each is respon­si­ble.

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Prob­lems of psy­cho­log­i­cal com­pat­i­bil­i­ty, if desired, can be solved. To do this, you need to work on your­self, devel­op some qual­i­ties in your­self, and try to get rid of some. The main thing to remem­ber is that you are doing all this for the sake of love, peace and per­son­al hap­pi­ness.