The ideal family does not have ideal rules because such families simply do not exist. Although, of course, everyone has their own understanding of the ideal and we all strive for it. Today we will talk about the rules by which every self-respecting family should live.
If disciplines were taught in schools that illuminate moments of family life, values and traditions, then the success of marriages would certainly increase. Young people entering into sacred union often have no idea what kind of work it is.
We follow the rules
Married life must necessarily begin with truth and sincerity towards each other. Future spouses should be aware of their actions, be confident in choosing a chosen one.
The family is a small society, which, in order to live together, must establish its own small laws and respect them. The moral rules of the family include:
- it is necessary to recognize each other as the highest value;
- disinterested care and love for the spouse;
- compassion and participation in the life of all family members, readiness to help and support;
- a conscious desire to promote the common good of the family;
- rejection of selfishness and focus on the interests of others.
The rules of communication and relationships in the family should be based on the recognition of the role of each family member. We all play social roles in one way or another. With parents, each of us plays the role of a child, at work we are colleagues, colleagues, at the institute — students. In the family, as in any society, we are also assigned certain “parties”. The woman acts as a wife and mother. This means that caring for her husband and children is paramount to her. Respect for the spouse, recognition that he is the head of the family, love and the desire to be one with him — such an attitude should be seen by children. They are very observant, “fix” every word and copy their parents in everything. Therefore, they should set a worthy example.
The husband, in turn, is obliged to get used to the role of a caring husband and father, the protector of people dear and close to him. A reverent attitude towards a woman, respect and admiration for her. In no case can to use physical force, not to mention the fact that such a “manner of communication” would be used in front of children. This is low, vile and immoral.
Trust and respect between children and parents is very important. If a mother can become a faithful friend and adviser to her daughter, then many problems in education can be avoided. And do not forget to instill in children the elementary rules of etiquette that originate in the family. Respect for elders, the culture of communication and behavior, the rules of table etiquette — for all this, the child will definitely tell you later: “Thank you!”.